"My mother was watching this variety show and she comment that the contestant is so fat, fortunately, am born skinny..."
At that moment when I saw this post, I was speechless... She might unintentionally say this, but the words is hurting to some people. Sad to say, human practice discrimination even before our times. And in this modern world, the trend is all about being slim, being skinny. Many times, people don't mean YOU but indirectly it hits YOU when they mock at plus size people. I myself been through this stage, I have my every right to say everything. We get so sensitive because of only one reason, we ourselves know that we aren't looking that great, we know people discriminate us, make fun of us, judge us because of our size. We avoid the outer world, avoid seeing ourselves in the mirror, feeling upset and angry with people's comments, but we can't deny our own feeling. As I always said, you may say that you can't be bothered about other's comments, love yourself, and enjoy being your size, confident about who you are but there will always be this moment where u can't hide and simply been tear into pieces. Its the moment when u enter a half-full elevator and the "overload" button ring, everyone stare at you like as if you kill someone. No matter how confident you are, that's it, it kill every part of you. We are said we are happy being plus size, in denial of our unhappiness because we do not want to feel defeated.
Maybe they don't know how to do, what to do, don't want to do or simply just think that they can't. However, the thing that is really upsetting is that many still choose their "so-called" life enjoyment over their health, indulge in chocolate, sweet drinks, tibits, fast food, etc. They choose to do nothing to their health and yet blames others, blame the society, blame their "family genes", blame the tasty unhealthy food for making them obese. Ask yourself: Is this really the "enjoyment" that u want?
Enjoy that 1 hr of indulging and suffer from the after-effect, not only the outer appearance but also the internal health. Again it voice down to how much you want it...
To many, they think we are out here to "con" money, but if you have your own method to achieve health, I sincerely wish u all the best. If u really need help, please be open out, because its your health not mine. It's either me or other commercial company (slimming center, doctor, slimming pill seller) or the hospital will take your money.
Seriously, I have my day job, my earning is decent, this extra income is just a bonus, and not to mention about the time and effort spend to follow up on the progress, we don't charge for it. But afterall it's your health that matters.
PS: Just as my this post is sitting in the oven, baking in progress.. I saw this new article on Facebook "French ‘Curvy Women’ Group Files Complaint Against Chanel Designer Karl Lagerfeld"
